Happy birthday EKO muwaaahhhhhhhh......

I wonder, when I look at the end,

How different we were but still we became friends :P

Since then we have been together in ups & downs,

Be it masti, tragedy, pange, mischief or frown :P

Darling, you are so sweet & really damn easy to woo,

Doesn’t matter if Sepo says that you suck at your choice for shoe :P

I hope you appreciate my effort of making this poem rhyme,

By the way, I love your wind chime :P

We were together when the time was dark,

Don’t go into sea or you’ll get eaten by shark :P

When you smile, you look like bugs bunny,

I wanna tell that you really rock honey :P

I think I’ve written enough crap,

Hey do check your sandals for loose straps :P

You see at the end of each line I’ve shown my tongue,

We should stand up when the national anthem is being sung :P

At last, I’m wishing you a very happy birthday Eko,

And haan, iss creative poem se kuch seekho :P

with loads & loads of love
vandy (your sardarni :P)

My SSB experience!!!

No need to say how much I missed this place,,,,it has been ages since I’ve published anything here (most of my posts have this line ;)

Anyways,,,let me start. As Sepo has already told you about happenings of college,,, so I’ll begin with my SSB trip only.

Firstly, it was my first trip outside jammu without friends. Now others would have said “without family” but since I never had any trip with family so doesn’t matter & since parents are not allowed to stay in SSB center so there being with me in trip (so to say) was of no use.

My SSB was in Allahabad,,well known as rejection center. I happened to clear an army interview in college (don’t know how) so I got call letter & being adventurous I don’t miss any such thing. I was so excited about this thing but the only thing that bothered was “my friends were not with me”

My friends always treat me like a kid,,I’m so pampered ,,,without them,,,I don’t know what I’ll do. They keep on reminding me every little thing otherwise I’m so careless. They take care of everything. So I was worried how I’ll manage???

At MCO,,,when I saw other girls who also came for same SSB,,,I was like “these girls won’t even talk to me,,,these are having so much attitude”,,,,I just then called Sepo,,,and she told me to relax. Cellphones were not allowed & moreover prepaid of jammu doesn’t work outside state so that was a big problem.

Anyhow,,,everyone gathered in the SSB center & within no time we all knew each other’s names. We were allotted beds,, mine was near to Shutobha (aka bunty) & kulwinder (aka kullu),,,so these two became my friends instantly. Swati & Vinita (aka vini) also became friends. Everyone was talking,,,trying to get familiar with everyone else but I was missing my friends big time,,, I went to call them but,,,guess what??? That damn STD,,,I wasn’t able to get connected to my friends’ mobiles & I remembered landline of just one friend,,that was puji. But slowly I became accustomed to that place & people & within no time we became like chuddie-buddies. I used to tell them about my friends & I literally pissed off them with my senti stuff,,,,my friends & all. I showed them the heart that sepo & eko gave me,,,,I kept telling them what surprise gift I’m gonna give puji,,,,but they were really nice,,they always listened to my crap & yeah,,,I got one more name “senti aunty”

Bunty was screen out but kullu,,,swati & vini were with me till end of this. I made many more friends Monika, Pallavi, Puneet, Pooja, Shewata, Shikha,Raman,Meenakshi, Himansha,,long list,,forgive me if I skipped some names.

We had such a great time,,,we four were like the most “bindaas” girls of 14SSB & we enjoyed every moment,,,we used to gossip,,,we used to pull each other’s leg but at the same time we cared for each other too. We were alike in one way or the other so we got along so well.

All tasks went good ,,,except few but anyhow I enjoyed doing every task,,,especially snake race & individual obstacles ,,,I did them without hurting myself & in a single attempt. I was sure that swati & kullu will get through this & they really wanted that & guess what??? They got through it. Vini & I were not recommended but we were happy for our friends. But the last day was so gloomy,,,we hadn’t expected that we’ll get so close that it’ll become so hard to get apart. But as all good things come to an end so was this trip. But we took each other’s numbers & id’s & we’ll be in touch for sure.

On the whole it was an awesome blossom experience.

I came back home now but guess what now I’m missing my SSB friends.

Today I wanted to go to college to meet my friends but Eko called me to her place so that we could study or rather she could teach me as I still have to give one internal exam. I didn’t like the idea much because I wanted to meet Puji also so I told Eko to call her too but no response from her. Anyways I reached Eko’s stop & called Sepo,,,she said she’ll be late & I was like “what the hell?” I have so much to tell & she’ll be late.

So I entered Eko’s place,,,all alone & I opened the room reluctantly ,,,,and guess what Sepo already there with that “HEARTIEST WELCOME VANDY” poster,,,banner,,,whatever it is called. I was so happy. So I settled on the bed & started with my SSB stuff but Eko interrupted me & asked me to get book from cupboard so that we could study & I was like “grrrr”

It was too dark there & she said light isn’t working,,,so I opened it in dark & guess what??? Surprise again,,,,Puji was in cupboard,,,,I couldn’t have asked for anything else. For 5seconds I was in state of shock as it was too good to be true but it was the truth & Puji was there.

Picture abhi baki hai mere dost,,,,one more surprise…

Sepo had made a movie for me,,,,it was such a cute collection of pics & titles & cutest thing was the loads of mistakes Sepo did in that. I was on cloud nine by now.

But wait,,,,,one more surprise

And that was the blog post that Eko has posted before this one,,,,,,it was really so sweet.

I was feeling like a princess,,,really I’m so lucky to have friends like them.

Last surprise was Mexicana pizza of smoking-joes that they had ordered.

Man,,,I wasn’t believing my eyes. I had missed them so much & they too missed me but I wasn’t expecting so many surprises.

It was wonderful,,,,beautiful,,,,lovely,,,,actually can’t be described in words.

And I learned no matter how far we go,,,,we’ll friends forever.

With love

vandy

P.S. I'm happy to be with my friends again but I'm missing my SSB friends a big time :(

SURPRISE......

FROM EKSHA alas EKO...

welcome back VANDANA alas VANDY,,,,,,,my sweetiepie.......

oh girl i missed so so much......my days were dreaming,,,my nights were sleepless,,,,uff,,, u getting atleast a hint na.....how much i missed u......yeaa,,,,,U SHOULD.....

and tujhe to pata hi hai......sab kaam mujhe hi karna padhta hai,,,, :P

ok....now here is something special 4 u....

the very 1st day u went,,,,,,i started missing u,,,,, :(

*sob* *sob*............(zyada overacting to nai ho rahi....:P)

no seriously,,,,ws mising u so much,,,,,,den n dere i decided i'll jot down every moment wenever u came in my mind,,,,,,,,n so i did :)

here's a list,,,,,wich actually ws a msg stored in my drafts,,,,,bt den i thot putting it in blog will b a better idea den msgin u........coz d msg wud appear like

..........

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*some text missing*

*some text missing*

..........

so......m posting it here.....

(exactly d same as it ws saved in my cell)

FIRST DAY, 23rd of may

misin ur gudmrng wish

misin ur msgs

u r assiduous (saw dis word in dictionary,,,n it ws apt 4 u)

yaad ayi

yaad ayi

yaad ayi teri tongue ki :P

yaad ayi dominos wali pics dekhte hue,pooja k bday wali :P

fir yaad ayi,,,,,,,saw ur msg :( @12am

NEXT DAY, 24th of may

gudmrng :(

sapna aya tere points sandhya se zyaada hai....n u got selected

misd coz sneha ws home

misin writing G in msgs

misin comference talks

msgd sepo so yaad ayi teri :(

NEXT DAY, 25th of may

gudmrng

yaad ayi so msgd

jus remembered u n u cald :)

making nail art teri yaad mein :P

NEXT DAY, 26th of may

mrng

misin

exam tha(sessional comp n/w ka)...exhausted (i dun want koi misunderstanding ho.... i din gave exam... :P)...just going 2 d clg...made me exhausted,,,,,itni garmi thi aaj,,,,ufff

NEXT DAY, 27th of may

gudmrng....muwahhh

syllabus dekh rahi hun,yaad aa gyi :(

sardarni yaad a gyi n tere baalon ki choti bhi :P

padhte hue neend aa rahi hai....ur trait....yaad aa gyi teri :P

itz raining.....reminded me tera hame tang karna,sonu ke dhabe ki maggi k naam se :P

@10pm,,,,,i ws sayin mum ko......i'll msg something 2 my frndz,,,,,i ws taking names frndz ke,,,,,,i din take ur name coz u ver nt here :(..........mum said VANDY??? i replied...mum.....ssb......n den my stupid silly bro commented.....aaye pehla stage clear kar liya....

i said :)

sardarni hai woh meri :P

NEXT DAY, 28th of may

gudmrng....all the best....

recalled u sayin.....FORTKUTS....

today is friday....schezwan khana hai?? chale ??

yaaaad aaaaa rahiiiii hai,,,,, teri yaaadd aa rahiii hai....(song)

NEXT DAY, 29th of may

gudmrng

me going 2 clg...miss u...

all the best 4 ur tasks...

yaadein yaad aati hain.....

oye sardarni.....kaise hue tasks...hmmm..

NEXT DAY, 30th of may

gudmrng

chalo best of luck for the result......jai mata di....

excited n nervous....kya hua tere result ka...??

mmm....just got ur msg...dun b upset....THINK....agar tu select ho jati totu humse away chali jati :( fir hum bechare kya karte :( :P ;)

THINK HATKE :) muwahhhh

luvya....chalo ab wapis aa jao jaldi se....n sambhalo apni zimmedariyan.... :P

chal ab jaldi aa....padhna shuru kar......AUR KITNE AAGE KARVAYENGE HUM EXAMS :P

:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*

:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*

gandi ladki,,,,best frndz bna ki aayi,,,,,(frndz kehti to acha lagta :P)....isiliye bheja tha tujhe sardarni.....hhhmmmm

recald wen we gave u heart in the car......u ver over excited,,,muwahh,,,sardarni,,,,tu bhi na

@10pm sardarniiiiii.......ooo....meri sardarniii....(editd....chandniiii ooo meri chandniii)

NEXT DAY, 31st of may

gudmrng...gudmrng...gudmrng...

scotchy gudmrng msg by a frnd reminded me d names wid wich u cal us...

@1pm....kya kar rahi hai,,,,kahan pahunchi,,,koi msg hi kar deti...grrr...:P

missing u alot,,,,,,,alot matlab,,,,,allotttt,,,,deerrrr saara....

FINALLY,,,,,,,1st of june

gudmrng janeman

kahan hai....itz 10 in the mrng.....no cal yet....

brushing my teeth,,,,,teri ek aadat yaad ayi,,,,,khane k baad stomach me haath lagake check karna,,,,,,aur jagah bachi hai ki nai......:P

thinking bout ur surprises.....:)

cleaned up the room,,,,,gave my room a new look,,,,,just 4 ur surprise.. :P

finally writing this blog post 4 u....

n M DONE....@4 pm...

P.S. 1 dis msg ws of 14 pages in my cell :P

P.S.2 hope u like the surprises....

P.S.3 misssedddd uuuu alllooootttttt...................

luvya.....muwahhhh....

LOT OF THINGS...!!!

A lot has happened since the last post posted on the blog. We have been so busy that didn’t get time to fill-on the details. Now I feel it’s impossible to cover all the details as a lot of time has passed since then, and I have forgotten most of the things and events.

To start off, the one thing that I remember is the GALS DAY OUT. This event was planned and organised by our very own Vandy. It was the first time in 4 years that all (very most) of the girls of our class went together somewhere. Just the girls... mind you. It was super fun and full- on rocking. We all went to dominoes. And amidst the garlic breads and cheese bursts did a lot of pagalpanti. That day was one to the best days of our lives. The best moment being when the 12 of us tried and succeeded in squeezing ourselves in a wagonR. With Vandy and me accommodating ourselves in the dickey...!




The very next day we went for a small picnic to BAGH-E-BAHU. The best part about this trip was the water adventure we had there. On this water body, we saw a bunch of guys floating on a raft sort of a thing. So we went ahead to join them. In groups, by turns we went on this water ride. A particular group has a narrow escape, as two of its members nearly drowned themselves....!! Ha-ha. We were literally Rolfing as our group was the accident-less one....!



A few days after that (yea, you get the vibe...! So much happening) we organised a small party @ college for our classmates and teachers. Vandy had made a movie on our college days. The main purpose was to display the movie; needless to say everybody loved it...!! Vandy and I were mushy throughout the movie. Holding hands and shedding tears silently....!! The party was also a big success. A cake was cut. And we had a cake fight/ snow spray storm/ dance party until we were chucked outa the classroom. That didn’t stop us eh. We all sat together squeezed in the canteen and had had hell-lotta-fun. Well, another memorable day...!!






After that we were busy with our sessionals (internal assessment exams). Nothing to discuss about them. They were just the usual. But immediately after them, we went on a trip to MATA VAISHNO DEVI, of which I have written in detail in my blog.

Inbetween all this there were many other things like a trip to get new dress for Vandy, planning menu and buying stuff for the party. This brought us (me and eku) closer to Puji (Vandy’s BF). And it was in this period that I got addicted to MUTTON MOMO’S....!!

These days Vandy is out of town for her SSB. And all of us missing her like hell. Eku and I discuss her habits, her way of talking everyday on the phone. Really missing her, and here’s hoping that she does well and gets through.
Loveya hun
With love
SEPO

Last few parties!!!!

“College life is gonna end soon”
This is the latest buzz everywhere.
Oh yeah,, four years of fun is gonna end within few days :(
With each passing day our friendship & bonding is getting stronger & stronger and we are having loads & loads of parties. “One month before birthday”,,, “girls mini college leaving party”,,, “last mini picnic party” & so on. Everyone is like discussing how we’ll keep in touch,,,phone keeps busy all the time discussing how we’ll make others feel special in these last days. We keep on reminding each other the sweet memories we have shared during these four years. We leave college so late & don’t go directly to home. So much to do but such a little time. This period is perhaps the busiest period of this semester or I can say our college life.

Oh yeah,,,,that’s the reason I couldn’t scribble the latest buzz here because I keep so busy.

Okay I’ll give you a brief about the happenings in past few weeks.

I’ve been to shopping spree with “Paandvis”,,,,then to Smokinjoes & Dominos with Eko & Sepo,,,(from now onwards I’ll call them YA-YA’s,,,,that’s the name of contact group I’ve saved in my cell for them). With YA-YA’s I had hell lot of discussion about so many things & trust me nothing can be better than discussing your problems with friends & the discussion really changed mood of everyone. This bond of sisterhood is …………………I don’t know,,,,,,,,,,,,or maybe I know,,,,,it’s beautiful.

Ohhh,,,I forgot to tell YA-YA’s really embarrassed me like hell in mall,,,,,oh god,,,they raided almost all shops there & ended up buying just one top,,,,I’m sure no one in mall will let us enter again.

Okay next very happening thing was the surprise I planned for my best best bestest friend Puji. No occasion actually but we called it “one month before birthday” celebrations. Surprise was something like this : I blindfolded her & Eko lighted a candle,,,which was on a pastry of course,,,then Puji opened her eyes made a wish & blew the candle (I know it’s so dumb to explain this but still…) then I gave her a card & a red rose. Eko also got a card & white rose for her. And then I gave her a cd that contained a movie of our pics. Then I hugged & kissed her (don’t raise your brows like that,,,we both are straight). She watched the movies after two days & cried like hell after that. She watched it for some 12 times & during this time my cell was flooded with her “luvya” messages & kisses (I’m still blushing). Well I’m too happy that my surprise worked for her. And since then we are like we used to be a year ago. What happened in this one year,,,don’t ask but I’ve been trying hard to make up for things I’ve done & it was not the first time I did anything to revive our friendship,,,,since past one year I’ve been trying hard. But I wanna tell you one thing,,,true friendship returns back to you,,,,,always and that’s what happened with me & Puji.


Well this was all about YA-YA’s and PAANDVIS’ sisterhood,,,a lot I’ve skipped but whatever I’ve shared are the major happenings.


With love
vandy

ANNIVERSARY BASH.....!!!

Yeah people 10th of April is the day the three of us (Eku, Sepo and Vandy) were stringed in this beautiful necklace of friendship forever. We knew each other before, but that bond of trust and love was formed one year before. Today in the morning I was totally clueless about the fact. We were meeting at Eku’s place today, so that Vandy could finish working on Eku’s still unfinished ballerinas. Actually some time back I glamorised by old pair of ballet shoes with help of different ribbons and all. Needless to say the result was fab.



Eku too wanted to do the same with her old ballerina’s, so Vandy undertook the task and worked for it. So today was the final day for making the shoes. And Vandy the cobbler reached Eku’s place bright and early with her needles, threads, and fevicol and elfy...!!



There is some piece of news- “eku and I are neighbours now”. Yep. We live quite close to each other’s place now. So I took my sweet time to ready and move my lazy *** thinking “pass he toh Jana hai”. I reached a little late, Vandy was glued to the lappy, with her latest buzzzzz.....!! and while giving me a hug, her hand gave me a jilt and my bindi fell. I mean MY BINDI FELL. CAN U IMAINE THAT...??? I shouted at her and threatened her to find it, or the consequences would be dire ( we are friends, alright but bindi is bindi) and moreover it was one of a kind pink in colour......!! I had to take help of fevicol to stick it back. With my friends shouting in background, “fevicol se skin kharab ho jayege”, “pimples ho jayege”, “bass bindi ki pade hai isse toh”, “tujhe pta bhi hai aaj kya hai”. But my whole concentration was on my bindi. Finally, it stuck it where it ought to be. Then I came back to them, to see Vandy’s latest buzz update. Wow. It was our anniversary today..... How cool.



We then started recollecting all the memories of how we met and the fun we had, the fact that how nicely we gelled together. We had gone to a trip together and that’s how we(eku and me) came close to Vandy. I also remembered that, there I hurt myself badly (broke my elbow) and eku was taking me to the dispensary telling others to carry on, but Vandy insisted on coming with us. I found that so sweet. Have discussed a lot about that trip with each other but I have never told this to you.




So coming back to the shoes, Vandy worked really hard and made super cute shoes for eku, Barbie girl types complete with a ankle tie-up bow. Creative and innovative are the qualities written in our resumes....lol. we guys had a lot of fun making the shoes, Vandy was most of the time working. Stitching and sticking. Eku was keeping us entertained by dancing, taking out funny noises and talking to herself and suddenly shouting at times....noni noni noni...!! I was making my assignment (:D). We had food too, taepla’s and khakra’s, nice stuff.

Our friends were leaving today for delhi to get their projects and materials. So we decided to give them a visit and see them off. We took sandwiches for them. Went to the station, talked and bye byed them. And offcouse the most important thing a forgot.... eku wore her new shoes....!! and everyone was like wow....!!



We then came back to our respective places after wishing each other the zillionth time....!
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY
Wanna say love you both, we darling angels, love hitting you and irritating the shit out of you. Will always be there for you...!
Hope we stay together forever n ever
3 cheers to our friendship
HiP hIp HuRrAy....!

with love
SEPO

p.s
i don't have the final pic of the shoes, will add it as soon as i get it.

cake walk!!!

So I’m back.

Honestly I don’t know what I’m gonna write as I haven’t thought anything in particular,,,,but since it’s my turn to write & since a long I’m procrastinating so now I really need to write.

Hmmm,,,,,so I’ll continue from where Sepo left.

Free calling is still doing wonders for us. After assignment,,,,we prepared for our minors on conference,,,,isn’t it great!!!!

While preparing,,,,we had hell lotta fun,,,,oh yeah we never stop pulling each other’s leg ,,,,somethings I would to like quote here,,,,like pronouncing “alterations” as “aalterations”,,,,now this is me,,,,,but guys when “aal” can be well,,,,then why not “aalteration” can be accepted????

And during this time,,,I got to know that some people are really muggers,,,bloody muggers,,,& they are not willing to understand the basic underlying concepts,,,,they just wanna cram things,,,and some people just can’t forget the fact that they are best speaker,,,so even when they are just teaching you they’ll say like jaisa ki aap dekh sakte hain,,I mean what the hell is this??? Simply say dekho,,,but these silly people,,,,anyways,,, back to our preparation ,,,well to very honest I haven’t ever prepared for minors this seriously,,,I mean,,,book open,,,,on conference,,,,at mid night,,,,too numb to feel anything just hearing what is being taught ,,,I mean this is just too much and I remember that how drowsy were the mornings for us!!!

Now this was a shock my family members. My mom stated thinking that I’m preparing for my pending backlogs. My younger sis who really couldn’t see me working so hard would shout “aa ja mere behan,,ab so ja” (in typical comic style that she uses often)

And worse was I too wanted to study,,,I mean in college also till exam started my books were open,,,I mean I was also like what’s wrong with me???? But yeah,,,it was all Eko’s effect :P

Aal is well if end is well,,,,out of four exams,,,we did great in three & left blank sheet in fourth,,,,but nothing to worry,,,,picture abhi baki hai mere dost,,,,,we have life saver improvement exams also.

Exams ended but then we got to know that some joint placement venture is being carried out in an engineering college ,,,,and once again we were on our toes,,,preparing for it,,,,surfing on net,,,collecting information & all,,,,but

on that day,,,that was,,,1st of april,,,,we got to know we were not eligible,,,why???? please don't embarrass us more.

anyways during all these days,,,,we learned something,,,,,something that's really important,,,,no matter,,,,how difficult things are,,,just by staying together,,,we can make them a cake walk!!!

with love

vandy